When your hurting and you wanna be free from that pain , you do things that you do not do before. You try to change and explore a little bit in order to forget the pain. Pain from a failed relationship,to be specific. You cannot accept the fact that it is over and you need to move on immediately, but as days go by you get by and start picking up the pieces.
Some of the things that helps in the process of healing are the friends, their company. Family of course, Music is also one. Its like you became interested of playing a marshall as100d instrument so you can let go those sounds that you wanted to shout out to ease that pain. I should know the feeling as I was so in love with music during my hurting moments, and it was effective to the healing process I was into that time.