What will you do if you have a board mate or a room mates that is totally untidy and insensitive? Would you tell him/her that you are affected and already pissed off with his/her attitude? . I have ask this question because it bothers me to see my room mates on their being insensitive and selfish . Maybe they are missing my sharp tongue as I use to be with them before. But as we knew each other, I became nice and I stop reminding them the house rules, As I thought they are already grown up and are able to do their responsibility just as they decided to live on their own. But maybe I was wrong , I could not count in my hands anymore how often they missed to do their part to maintain the apartment clean as a courtesy to others. When someone broke a glass , no one would admit who did it and many more incidents to mention. Maybe it was the ghost who broke it. They love to use my things that I allow them to use, but they will not put an extra care over those things. I hate it because they don't have this sense of ownership. And because I promise myself I would never be tough to them I keep my calm, but with what I am seeing right now, I need to be strict again and remind them over and over again, until it stick on their minds. I just hope I could communicate it with them loud and clear without being sarcastic, because being nice to those people whom I think are so deeply insensitive is one of my biggest struggle.goodness!